台中洋碩美語 makes our lives valuable

The bully usually happens during one’s school life. When people are still finding themselves, the easiest way is to follow the majority, to blend into a big group so you don’t feel left out.

Then the ones that are “different” from others will usually be the one that’s being picked up. When we were young, we want to be just like everyone else; because we’re still finding our way, because we haven’t learned how to embrace our differences. When we grow up, we want to be different, we want to stand out. We try to find what are the differences between us and the others.

Bully is a serious problem in all countries, no matter developed or underdeveloped. The effect on people that been bullied might even be so great that it became their deepest fear and may even change their life entirely.

Don’t try to change yourself, the most important thing to do is to seek for help. The situation might not get better, but it’ll give you the strength to be braver, to have faith in yourself. STAY STRONG!!

校園霸凌事件層出不窮,不管任何國家都存在著這個問題....

當我們還小的時候,我們想融入大家,不想和別人不一樣,因為我們還在自我探索的過程當中,而最簡單的方式便是跟隨別人;當漸漸長大後,我們試著找尋自己跟別人的不同處,因為每個人都是獨特的個體.

在學校與同儕相處時,那些較與眾不同的學生便比較容易成為被霸凌的對象,舉凡國家,膚色,種族,性別,性向,長相,身材....等等,其實霸凌的行為只是霸凌者對自己的保護機制,以先發制人找出特徵明顯的人來下手而不至於暴露自己的弱點.對於被霸凌者的幫助除了從根本的教育下手,我們所能做的就是讓他們知道有哪些管道能夠尋求幫助,霸凌的情況有可能不會一瞬間就轉好,但透過正確的管道尋求幫助卻能夠讓自己有力量能夠站起來保護自己對抗惡勢力.

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