The bully usually happens during one’s school life. When people are still finding themselves, the easiest way is to follow the majority, to blend into a big group so you don’t feel left out.
Then the ones that are “different” from others will usually be the one that’s being picked up. When we were young, we want to be just like everyone else; because we’re still finding our way, because we haven’t learned how to embrace our differences. When we grow up, we want to be different, we want to stand out. We try to find what are the differences between us and the others.
Bully is a serious problem in all countries, no matter developed or underdeveloped. The effect on people that been bullied might even be so great that it became their deepest fear and may even change their life entirely.
Don’t try to change yourself, the most important thing to do is to seek for help. The situation might not get better, but it’ll give you the strength to be braver, to have faith in yourself. STAY STRONG!!
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